Relating R1

Appreciation

Relating to people and planet Earth with a deep sense of gratitude, positive regard, and joy.

Tools for this skill (12)

Appreciative framing in team discourse

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To balance attention to problems with attention to what is working. When discussing team performance or reviewing work, deliberately include appreciative questions alongside pro…

Appreciative Interviews

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In pairs, people interview each other for a success story — a time they worked on a challenge and are proud of what happened — then quartets distill the conditions that made suc…

Being Grateful

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An introduction to gratitude practice: noticing and naming what is already present and good — in writing, jars, or rounds — shifting attention from scarcity to appreciation, wit…

Cultivating Awe

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A solo imagination-and-reflection journey designed to evoke awe — vastness, wonder, the sense of something larger than oneself — and then harvest what it shifts: meaning, apprec…

Gratitude Practice

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Appreciation strengthens connection and sustains motivation for long-term sustainability work. When teams notice and name what they value, they reinforce commitment to protectin…

Milestone celebrations and pausing to appreciate

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To mark achievements and counteract the tendency to rush past accomplishments. When the team completes a significant project, reaches a goal, or navigates a difficult period suc…

Mindful Nature Walk

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The entry-level nature-connection practice: a walk in forest or park with attention deliberately in relationship — naming trees, listening to layered sounds, feeling the carryin…

Positive Gossip

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Pairs "gossip" about colleagues — strictly positively: telling stories of what someone did well, as if the person weren't listening. Rounds rotate so everyone gossips and is gos…

Regular appreciation rounds

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To create recurring opportunities for team members to express appreciation for each other. Include a brief appreciation round in regular team meetings: each person has the oppor…

The Appreciation Expression

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A seconds-scale daily micro-practice for Appreciation (VCoL collection): When you notice something a colleague has done well, pause and express appreciation specifically. Rather…

The Difficulty Gift

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A seconds-scale daily micro-practice for Appreciation (VCoL collection): When facing difficulty, pause and ask: 'What might I appreciate here, even so?' Look for: what you might…

The Gratitude Notice

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A seconds-scale daily micro-practice for Appreciation (VCoL collection): Two or three times during the day, pause and notice something you appreciate that you might otherwise ta…

Also develops it (11)

Acts of Kindness in Daily Life

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The behavioural wing of compassion training: deliberately practising generosity, hospitality or kindness toward specific people — someone close, someone neutral, someone difficu…

Celebrating progress and successes

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Hope is sustained by evidence that progress is possible. Teams that notice and celebrate progress build the foundation for continued hope. Create regular practices for noticing…

Enhancing Sensorial Connectedness

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A day with a local ecosystem: participants engage it through their senses — observing, listening, touching, collecting in situ — and reflect on interdependence and appreciation…

Focus on contribution over credit

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To shift team culture toward valuing contribution to shared goals rather than individual recognition. Cultivate norms and practices that emphasize contribution over credit: • Wh…

Loving-Kindness / Compassion Meditation

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The progressive compassion practice at the heart of most compassion trainings: settle into body and breath; direct kind, non-judging attention first to yourself (self-compassion…

Nature Quest

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Structured solo time in wild nature in three phases: preparation (practical questions, naming worries, setting intention), the quest itself — going alone to a chosen place, leav…

Sit Spot Practice

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Each person chooses one spot in nature and returns to it again and again — sitting quietly, observing what lives and changes there through weathers and seasons, journalling afte…

Storytelling about lessons learned

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To build a team culture that values learning through stories. Integrate brief storytelling moments into regular team meetings. One person shares a 'learning moment' from recent…

The Shield

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Each participant draws a large shield divided into four fields and fills them with PICTURES (no words) on personal themes — "this describes me…", "a difficulty I got over…", "I…

The Superhero in Me

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Through a superhero framing, participants explore their capabilities and challenges by casting them: strengths as a superhero, compensated weaknesses as a sidekick, and challeng…

The Symbiosis Meditation

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An eight-minute guided imagination journey through the elements of your own body — earth (bones, teeth, weight), water (blood, inner oceans), air (breath, oxygen), fire (heat, t…

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