exercise · all tools
Kiss Kiss Diss
Depth · what it can open●●●○3 — emotional
Holding · facilitation2 — facilitator
Trust · group readiness★★some
Disclosure · what is sharedoptional
In a circle of five to ten who know each other, the person three seats to your left gives you a compliment — specific enough to land — the next gives another, and the person beside you gives one thing you could work on. Then it moves on. The manual's own example of a compliment that works is about someone giving up their place in games for a newcomer.
Hold with care
- The critique is one in three and comes from the nearest neighbour; the manual's precondition — people already familiar with each other — is the whole safety design
Practical
- Time
- 10-20 min
- Group
- 5–10 · small-group
- Settings
- in-person, online
- Mechanisms
- feedback-mirroring, dialogic-encounter
- Change scope
- state → skill · repeatable
Instructions
- Where
- authrev.org/ar-games-manual — Authentic Relating Games Manual, paid
- Availability
- In the source document — the instructions live inside the material linked, on its terms
- Licence
- CC BY-SA 4.0 (Authentic Relating Games Manual)
Source link checked 31 Aug 2026 — unchanged since we recorded it on 29 Aug 2026
This directory describes and points home; the instructions stay with the people who made them.
Origin
Ali Hussein (Austin Love Juggernaut) — Authentic Relating (Authentic Relating Games Manual, 2025 edition)
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status: checked · added 2026-08-31