exercise · all tools

The Reframe Game

Depth · what it can open●●○○2 — reflective
Holding · facilitation1 — host
Trust · group readinessany
Disclosure · what is sharedoptional

One person outlines a problem — ideally a difficult conversation they face — and asks for reframes; the others offer different ways of seeing it, each speaking once before anyone speaks twice. Five minutes a person. Made for a course on difficult conversations, on the premise that the group is smarter than any member.

Practical

Time
20-30 min
Group
34 · triads, small-group
Settings
in-person, online
Mechanisms
cognitive-reframing, perspective-taking, dialogic-encounter
Change scope
state → skill · repeatable

Instructions

Where
authrev.org/ar-games-manual Authentic Relating Games Manual, paid
Availability
In the source document — the instructions live inside the material linked, on its terms
Licence
CC BY-SA 4.0 (Authentic Relating Games Manual)

Source link checked 31 Aug 2026 — unchanged since we recorded it on 29 Aug 2026

This directory describes and points home; the instructions stay with the people who made them.

Origin

Sara Ness and Geof Krum, for Authentic Revolution's Art of Difficult Conversations class — Authentic Relating (Authentic Relating Games Manual, 2025 edition)

In this directory via Authentic Relating Games Manual

Related: Troika Consulting (alternative-to) · Wise Crowds (alternative-to)

status: checked · added 2026-08-31