exercise · all tools
Who Are You?
Depth · what it can open●●●○3 — emotional
Holding · facilitation2 — facilitator
Trust · group readiness★★some
Disclosure · what is sharedrequired
Three questions, two minutes each: 'Who are you?', 'Who do you pretend to be?', and — asked back — 'Who do you think I am?', then a debrief and a swap. The manual calls it one of the more powerful identity-challengers it knows.
Practical
- Time
- 15 min
- Group
- 2–∞ · pairs
- Settings
- in-person, online
- Materials
- The three questions written where all can see, or on notecards (optional)
- Mechanisms
- dialogic-encounter, narrative-identity, feedback-mirroring
- Change scope
- state → skill · repeatable
Instructions
- Where
- authrev.org/ar-games-manual — Authentic Relating Games Manual, paid
- Availability
- In the source document — the instructions live inside the material linked, on its terms
- Licence
- CC BY-SA 4.0 (Authentic Relating Games Manual)
Source link checked 31 Aug 2026 — unchanged since we recorded it on 29 Aug 2026
This directory describes and points home; the instructions stay with the people who made them.
Origin
Patrick Wolf (Authentic L.A.) — Authentic Relating (Authentic Relating Games Manual, 2025 edition)
In this directory via Authentic Relating Games Manual
status: checked · added 2026-08-31