exercise · all tools

Watermelon

Depth · what it can open●●○○2 — reflective
Holding · facilitation1 — host
Trust · group readinessany
Disclosure · what is sharedoptional

One partner may say only the word 'watermelon'; the other answers 'you seem…' with whatever they read in them, and the watermelons that follow are honest responses to being read. Three to five minutes, then shares. A game about how much of what we know of another's state never came through words.

Practical

Time
10 min
Group
2 · pairs
Settings
in-person, online
Mechanisms
perspective-taking, feedback-mirroring, somatic-awareness
Change scope
state → skill · repeatable

Instructions

Where
authrev.org/ar-games-manual Authentic Relating Games Manual, paid
Availability
In the source document — the instructions live inside the material linked, on its terms
Licence
CC BY-SA 4.0 (Authentic Relating Games Manual)

Source link checked 31 Aug 2026 — unchanged since we recorded it on 29 Aug 2026

This directory describes and points home; the instructions stay with the people who made them.

Origin

Authentic World; variation by Ross Cooper (Authentic Houston) — Authentic Relating (Authentic Relating Games Manual, 2025 edition)

In this directory via Authentic Relating Games Manual

Related: The Seems (pairs-with)

Variation in the manual: 'Hi, My Name Is…' in place of watermelon.

status: checked · added 2026-08-31