exercise · all tools
Secret Identity
Depth · what it can open●●○○2 — reflective
Holding · facilitation1 — host
Trust · group readiness★any
Disclosure · what is sharedoptional
The room is secretly split into a Friendly group, who answer 'how are you' with pleasantries, and a Raw group, who answer with one true sentence about their life; people mill and exchange greetings not knowing which they will meet, swap roles, then choose freely. A demonstration of default versus authentic relating that new groups understand at once.
Practical
- Time
- 20 min
- Group
- 6–∞ · large-group
- Settings
- in-person
- Mechanisms
- behavioral-rehearsal, dialogic-encounter, perspective-taking
- Change scope
- state → skill · repeatable
Instructions
- Where
- authrev.org/ar-games-manual — Authentic Relating Games Manual, paid
- Availability
- In the source document — the instructions live inside the material linked, on its terms
- Licence
- CC BY-SA 4.0 (Authentic Relating Games Manual)
Source link checked 31 Aug 2026 — unchanged since we recorded it on 29 Aug 2026
This directory describes and points home; the instructions stay with the people who made them.
Origin
Scott McClellan (Austin Love Juggernaut) — Authentic Relating (Authentic Relating Games Manual, 2025 edition)
In this directory via Authentic Relating Games Manual
status: checked · added 2026-08-31