exercise · all tools

Emotional Volume Knob

Depth · what it can open●●○○2 — reflective
Holding · facilitation1 — host
Trust · group readinessany
Disclosure · what is sharedoptional

One partner talks; the other conducts with a hand — fist at the hip for stop, pointing forward for go, down for dry and rational, up for pure emotion, anywhere between for that much. A way to play with how we say things instead of what, which the manual says gets people out of worrying about the right words.

Practical

Time
5-15 min
Group
2 · pairs
Settings
in-person, online
Mechanisms
creative-expression, behavioral-rehearsal, somatic-awareness
Change scope
state → skill · repeatable

Instructions

Where
authrev.org/ar-games-manual Authentic Relating Games Manual, paid
Availability
In the source document — the instructions live inside the material linked, on its terms
Licence
CC BY-SA 4.0 (Authentic Relating Games Manual)

Source link checked 31 Aug 2026 — unchanged since we recorded it on 29 Aug 2026

This directory describes and points home; the instructions stay with the people who made them.

Origin

Rob Hamshar, from improv comedy; later applied by Shane Orton in his Social Freedom Tribe — Improv; carried into Authentic Relating (Authentic Relating Games Manual, 2025 edition)

In this directory via Authentic Relating Games Manual

status: checked · added 2026-08-31