exercise · all tools

Conductor

Depth · what it can open●●○○2 — reflective
Holding · facilitation2 — facilitator
Trust · group readinessany
Disclosure · what is sharednone

A tight circle becomes three choirs; whoever stands in the middle improvises a melody — words, gibberish, a single note — for each choir to loop, then conducts the layers until ending it. Anyone may take the middle. The manual calls it deep, silly, transcendent or chaotic depending on the night.

Hold with care
  • The Healing Conductor variation asks people to revisit a difficult memory and sing it in three voices — objective, wounded, wise; the manual says music 'cuts straight into emotion', and that version belongs at depth 3 with a facilitator able to hold what surfaces

Practical

Time
10-25 min
Group
6 · large-group
Settings
in-person
Mechanisms
creative-expression, somatic-awareness, ritual-container
Change scope
state · repeatable

Instructions

Where
authrev.org/ar-games-manual Authentic Relating Games Manual, paid
Availability
In the source document — the instructions live inside the material linked, on its terms
Licence
CC BY-SA 4.0 (Authentic Relating Games Manual)

Source link checked 31 Aug 2026 — unchanged since we recorded it on 29 Aug 2026

This directory describes and points home; the instructions stay with the people who made them.

Origin

Phil Santos (Ecstatic Playground, Miami), inspired by Bobby McFerrin's circle singing — Authentic Relating (Authentic Relating Games Manual, 2025 edition); circlesong

In this directory via Authentic Relating Games Manual

Variation in the manual: Healing Conductor, which turns a charged memory into the three choirs.

status: checked · added 2026-08-31