exercise · all tools

Cartography

Depth · what it can open●●○○2 — reflective
Holding · facilitation1 — host
Trust · group readinessany
Disclosure · what is sharedoptional

For seven minutes one partner maps the other's mind with hypotheticals — would you ever, would you rather, would you like to — answered truthfully, with conditions if needed, going for breadth rather than depth. Then 'what I think I get about you is…' and 'what I realize about myself is…'. Curiosity turned sideways, the manual says.

Practical

Time
20-30 min
Group
2 · pairs
Settings
in-person, online
Mechanisms
dialogic-encounter, perspective-taking, narrative-identity
Change scope
state → skill · repeatable

Instructions

Where
authrev.org/ar-games-manual Authentic Relating Games Manual, paid
Availability
In the source document — the instructions live inside the material linked, on its terms
Licence
CC BY-SA 4.0 (Authentic Relating Games Manual)

Source link checked 31 Aug 2026 — unchanged since we recorded it on 29 Aug 2026

This directory describes and points home; the instructions stay with the people who made them.

Origin

David Staab (Austin Love Juggernaut) — Authentic Relating (Authentic Relating Games Manual, 2025 edition)

In this directory via Authentic Relating Games Manual

Related: Curiosity (variant-of)

status: checked · added 2026-08-31