exercise · all tools

I Know That Hand

Depth · what it can open●●○○2 — reflective
Holding · facilitation1 — host
Trust · group readiness★★some
Disclosure · what is sharednone

Two lines of partners take each other's hands and learn them by touch alone, then rotate so that everyone has studied everyone's hands. Then one line closes their eyes and holds out a hand; the other line shuffles and takes a hand at random, and the eyes-closed player has to name whose it is. A correct guess is confirmed by a gentle squeeze rather than a word.

Hold with care
  • Sustained hand-holding with everyone in the room, then being held by someone you cannot see and cannot identify — the anonymity is the exercise and is exactly what some people will want to decline
  • Needs the group to know each other's names before it can be run at all, which the author lists as a necessity

Practical

Time
min
Group
? · pairs, large-group
Settings
in-person
Mechanisms
somatic-awareness, attention-training, dialogic-encounter
Change scope
state → skill · repeatable

Instructions

Where
dramatips.com/lesson-plans/drama-exercises-to-build-confidence DramaTips, open
Availability
Open online — published at the link, free to read

Source link checked 1 Sep 2026 — reachable

This directory describes and points home; the instructions stay with the people who made them.

Origin

Carlijn (DramaTips) — Drama teaching

In this directory via DramaTips

The author's own framing: works on — Safety, Trust; goals — Letting go control, Trusting, Fun, Connecting.

status: checked · added 2026-09-01