exercise · all tools

How's Yours?

Depth · what it can open○○○1 — informational
Holding · facilitation1 — host
Trust · group readinessany
Disclosure · what is sharedoptional

One person steps out; the group picks something they all have — a toothbrush, or childhood memories — and the guesser may only ask 'How's yours?', receiving vague true answers until they name the thing. Light, and the abstract versions quietly reveal more than the concrete ones.

Practical

Time
5-20 min
Group
4 · small-group, large-group
Settings
in-person, online
Mechanisms
creative-expression, perspective-taking
Change scope
state · repeatable

Instructions

Where
authrev.org/ar-games-manual Authentic Relating Games Manual, paid
Availability
In the source document — the instructions live inside the material linked, on its terms
Licence
CC BY-SA 4.0 (Authentic Relating Games Manual)

Source link checked 31 Aug 2026 — unchanged since we recorded it on 29 Aug 2026

This directory describes and points home; the instructions stay with the people who made them.

Origin

Daniel Johnson (Authentic Relating Philadelphia) — Improv guessing game; carried into Authentic Relating (Authentic Relating Games Manual, 2025 edition)

In this directory via Authentic Relating Games Manual

status: checked · added 2026-08-31