exercise · all tools

Core Exploration

Depth · what it can open●●●3 — emotional
Holding · facilitation2 — facilitator
Trust · group readiness★★some
Disclosure · what is sharedrequired

In threes, an Explorer spends three minutes going after what matters most to a Speaker — feeling it, reflecting it, digging with 'why does X matter to you?', distilling and checking — while a Listener tracks where they felt the Speaker most. Each then says what they now understand about the Speaker's core, and the Speaker says it in a sentence. Built for a leadership training to teach empathic listening and to clarify motivation at once.

Practical

Time
40 min
Group
3 · triads
Settings
in-person, online
Mechanisms
dialogic-encounter, narrative-identity, values-clarification
Change scope
state → skill · repeatable

Instructions

Where
authrev.org/ar-games-manual Authentic Relating Games Manual, paid
Availability
In the source document — the instructions live inside the material linked, on its terms
Licence
CC BY-SA 4.0 (Authentic Relating Games Manual)

Source link checked 31 Aug 2026 — unchanged since we recorded it on 29 Aug 2026

This directory describes and points home; the instructions stay with the people who made them.

Origin

Sara Ness, for the Authentic Leadership Training — Authentic Relating (Authentic Relating Games Manual, 2025 edition)

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status: checked · added 2026-08-31