exercise · all tools

Be Your Own Angel

Depth · what it can open●●●3 — emotional
Holding · facilitation2 — facilitator
Trust · group readiness★★some
Disclosure · what is sharedoptional

Standing in a circle behind a chair-back or pillow, eyes closed, a guided meditation asks each person for a way of being to leave behind and one to step into; when it feels right, they name what they are stepping out of, step over the barrier naming what they are stepping into, and greet the others as that self. Given as a group-led gift at a 2017 leadership training, with live music the first time.

Practical

Time
15-20 min
Group
? · small-group, large-group
Settings
in-person
Materials
A chair-back, pillow or similar per person as a symbolic barrier; music recommended
Mechanisms
ritual-container, narrative-identity, somatic-awareness
Change scope
state → skill · repeatable

Instructions

Where
authrev.org/ar-games-manual Authentic Relating Games Manual, paid
Availability
In the source document — the instructions live inside the material linked, on its terms
Licence
CC BY-SA 4.0 (Authentic Relating Games Manual)

Source link checked 31 Aug 2026 — unchanged since we recorded it on 29 Aug 2026

This directory describes and points home; the instructions stay with the people who made them.

Origin

Kai Koru, Jonathan Van Matre, Rob Razmah, Shane Orton (Austin), Sara Katelyn Yeater / Sky (Houston) and Katie Stellar Dutcher (Austin) — a group-led gift at the Fall 2017 Authentic Leadership and Facilitation Training — Authentic Relating (Authentic Relating Games Manual, 2025 edition); threshold ritual

In this directory via Authentic Relating Games Manual

status: checked · added 2026-08-31