exercise · all tools

...AND...

Depth · what it can open●●●3 — emotional
Holding · facilitation2 — facilitator
Trust · group readinessany
Disclosure · what is sharedoptional

A silent meditation facing a partner: first on everything you share — a world, emotions, that they could be a mirror — and a minute or two on what it is like to be one; then on the other as a strange universe, never fully knowable even to itself, and what it is like to be two; then a Rumi line about understanding 'and'. Trippy, the manual admits.

Practical

Time
7 min
Group
2 · pairs
Settings
in-person
Mechanisms
stillness-silence, attention-training, dialogic-encounter
Change scope
state → skill · repeatable

Instructions

Where
authrev.org/ar-games-manual Authentic Relating Games Manual, paid
Availability
In the source document — the instructions live inside the material linked, on its terms
Licence
CC BY-SA 4.0 (Authentic Relating Games Manual)

Source link checked 31 Aug 2026 — unchanged since we recorded it on 29 Aug 2026

This directory describes and points home; the instructions stay with the people who made them.

Origin

Sara Ness (Austin Love Juggernaut) — Authentic Relating (Authentic Relating Games Manual, 2025 edition)

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status: checked · added 2026-08-31