exercise · all tools
Advice
Two minutes on something in your life you want to be different, then your partner asks the one question that changes everything: 'do you want advice?' Yes gets a minute of advice; no gets an offer of care — a shoulder rub, a hug, whatever would feel caring, checked before it is given. Advice can be love, the manual says; it helps to know it is coming and to want it.
- The 'no' branch offers touch; the manual says to check in before acting on the offer, and that check is the exercise's point
Practical
- Time
- 10 min
- Group
- 2–∞ · pairs
- Settings
- in-person
- Mechanisms
- dialogic-encounter, feedback-mirroring
- Change scope
- state → skill · repeatable
Instructions
- Where
- authrev.org/ar-games-manual — Authentic Relating Games Manual, paid
- Availability
- In the source document — the instructions live inside the material linked, on its terms
- Licence
- CC BY-SA 4.0 (Authentic Relating Games Manual)
Source link checked 31 Aug 2026 — unchanged since we recorded it on 29 Aug 2026
This directory describes and points home; the instructions stay with the people who made them.
Origin
Jason Digges (Integral Center) — Integral Center; carried into Authentic Relating (Authentic Relating Games Manual, 2025 edition)
In this directory via Authentic Relating Games Manual
Related: Mirror, Mirror (pairs-with)
status: checked · added 2026-08-31