exercise · all tools

Widening Circles

Depth · what it can open●●●3 — emotional
Holding · facilitation2 — facilitator
Trust · group readiness★★some
Disclosure · what is sharedoptional

In groups of four, each person speaks about an issue they care about four times over: first as themselves, then from the perspective of a person who opposes their view — in first person, as that adversary — then as a non-human being affected by the issue, and finally as a future human affected by the choices made now. Two to three minutes per perspective. Named for Rilke's "I live my life in widening circles"; perspective-taking stretched past the comfortable edge.

Prerequisites

  • Announce the perspectives one at a time (Inner Pathways' note) — knowing round three in advance flattens round two
Hold with care
  • Speaking AS one's adversary can stir real resistance or unexpected empathy; both are the exercise working — name that in the debrief
  • The non-human voice can move people deeply; leave room, don't rush the close

Practical

Time
30-60 min + 10 landing
Group
440 · small-group
Settings
in-person, online
Materials
Timekeeping; groups of four
Mechanisms
perspective-taking, dialogic-encounter, emotional-processing
Change scope
state → skill · repeatable

Origin & where it lives

Joanna Macy (Work That Reconnects; Seeing with New Eyes stage) — The Work That Reconnects

Instructions: open online

In this directory via The Work That Reconnects (Joanna Macy & Molly Brown) · The Inner Pathways Guide for Facilitators

Dual-sourced from the start (WTR practice carried by Inner Pathways), and the cleanest single exercise for the revised framework's Perspective Skills (T2) — it operationalizes the skill's definition almost literally.

status: checked · added 2026-08-25