The Understanding Check

Depth · what it can open●●○○2 — reflective

Holding · facilitation0 — self-guided

Trust · group readiness★any

Disclosure · what is sharednone

A seconds-scale daily micro-practice for Communication Skills (VCoL collection): Before responding, pause and check your understanding. Briefly summarise what you heard: 'So what you're saying is...' Wait for confirmation. If you misunderstood, let them clarify. Practised many times a day, with a brief evening reflection, until the move becomes automatic.

Practical

Time: 0-2 min
Group: 1–1 · individual
Settings: self-guided
Materials: None beyond ordinary meeting/work settings
Mechanisms: life-embedding, dialogic-encounter
Change scope: skill · recurring-practice (multiple times daily; same exercise for at least a week)

Origin & where it lives

Thomas Jordan & Claude [AI]; VCoL method by Theo Dawson (Lectica) — IDG practice (idg.thomasjordan.se)

Instructions: open online

In this directory via Thomas Jordan's IDG Resource Library

status: checked · added 2026-08-25