exercise · all tools

The Marriage War

Depth · what it can open●●○○2 — reflective
Holding · facilitation1 — host
Trust · group readinessany
Disclosure · what is sharednone

Two lines face each other as if for a tug of war, and the front person of each line plays one half of a worn-out marriage: one cooked a special dinner that went cold hours ago, the other forgot it, went out drinking and has just come home in the middle of the night, inventing excuses. The front players argue — excuse against seeing-through — and the moment one runs dry the person behind them steps in without a pause. The page asks the group afterwards to try other relationships and gender norms and to notice what that does.

Hold with care
  • An argument played by two lines of people who keep replacing the arguers can pick up momentum; the frame is a couple in conflict, which is close enough to real for some participants that a leader should watch the temperature

Practical

Time
min
Group
? · large-group
Settings
in-person
Mechanisms
behavioral-rehearsal, perspective-taking, emotional-processing
Change scope
state · repeatable

Instructions

Where
xn--dramavningar-8ib.se/aktenskapskriget Dramaövningar.se, open
Availability
Open online — published at the link, free to read

Source link checked 1 Sep 2026 — reachable

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Origin

Martin Wiss (published as 'Martin' on dramaövningar.se) — Swedish dramapedagogik

In this directory via Dramaövningar.se

status: checked · added 2026-09-01