exercise · all tools

Empathy Walk

Depth · what it can open●●●○3 — emotional
Holding · facilitation1 — host
Trust · group readiness★any
Disclosure · what is sharedoptional

Choose a person significantly different from you — across a boundary of politics, faith, class, life experience — invite them for a walk, and practice holding space across that difference: listening for their world without debating it. Preparation (contemplating the difference), the walk itself (1–2 hours), and structured reflection afterwards.

Prerequisites

  • The other person consents to a real conversation, not a study of themselves — honesty about the exercise is part of the ethics
Hold with care
  • Crossing a live boundary can stir defensiveness in both directions; the practice is staying in contact, not winning or converting
  • Choose a difference that stretches you, not one that endangers anyone

Practical

Time
60-120 min + 30 landing
Group
2–2 · pairs
Settings
in-person, outdoors
Materials
A genuine invitation; walking route
Mechanisms
dialogic-encounter, perspective-taking, life-embedding
Change scope
state → skill · repeatable

Instructions

Where
u-school.org/empathywalk — u-school for Transformation — Theory U tools, open
Availability
Open online — published at the link, free to read
Licence
CC BY (Presencing Institute)

Source link checked 29 Aug 2026 — unchanged since we recorded it on 28 Aug 2026

This directory describes and points home; the instructions stay with the people who made them.

Origin

Otto Scharmer / Presencing Institute (rooted in Ed Schein's exercise) — Theory U (co-initiating practice)

In this directory via u-school for Transformation — Theory U tools

Depth 3 with holding 1: the container is the walking format itself — side-by-side, in motion, in the world — one of the oldest regulation technologies for hard conversations.

status: checked · added 2026-08-25