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Compassionate accountability

Depth · what it can open●●○○2 — reflective
Holding · facilitation1 — host
Trust · group readiness★★some
Disclosure · what is sharedoptional

To address performance issues and concerns in ways that maintain care for the person while being honest about the problem. Compassion does not mean avoiding difficult conversations. When issues need to be addressed, do so with both honesty and care: • Be direct while remaining kind: Name the concern clearly without harsh judgment… An ongoing team scaffold (conversation practice), run when issues arise, not as a one-off.

Practical

Time
5-90 min
Group
220 · pairs, small-group
Settings
in-person, online
Materials
None beyond ordinary meeting/work settings
Mechanisms
life-embedding, emotional-processing, dialogic-encounter
Change scope
state → skill · recurring-practice (When issues arise)

Origin & where it lives

Thomas Jordan & Claude [AI] (IDG for Teams handbook — team scaffold) — IDG practice (idg.thomasjordan.se)

Instructions: open online

In this directory via Thomas Jordan's IDG Resource Library

Team leader role (Jordan): Develop your capacity for difficult conversations that combine honesty with care. Address issues directly rather than avoiding. Ensure accountability conversations are private and respectful.

status: checked · added 2026-08-25